Let’s pump the brakes real quick and recognize that I’m not talking about going to the school board and telling them to lock up specific books or stop teaching certain aspects of history. This is not that kind of post, so if you’re looking for that, please look elsewhere.
The type of nag I’m talking about is the one who works hard to ensure the school board is fair and ethical to all parties. Given that school board decisions can affect students, teachers, administrators, and families, school boards hold a lot of power. The kind of nag that I am is where I work to ensure that the concerns of families are being heard and that the focus is to ensure a better work environment for our amazing teachers, so they can, in turn, focus on providing a phenomenal learning experience for our students.
School boards make policies that our students and families experience on a daily basis. Changes to a schedule? New drop-off procedure? You and your family are the ones who deal with the outcome. Do you think that your voice or concerns won’t matter? That’s exactly what others want you to think! Boards, especially those that aren’t considering the needs and requirements of others, thrive on silence. Simply being present or asking a question can change the entire dynamic. They’ll realize that others are listening.
It’s also important to be there consistently rather than only when something goes wrong or families are upset about something. Showing up regularly to ask thoughtful questions is far more effective than only appearing when you’re angry about something. This shows that you’re invested in the school throughout the ups and downs and can help make your input during the harder times more effective.
So how do you get started being a good nag? I’m so glad you asked!
- Start small – attend a meeting, you don’t need to participate, just listen and find out where meeting minutes and agendas are housed so you can start familiarizing yourself with their procedures. Did you know that by law school boards with elected members in Indiana must now tape their meetings and have the recording readily available? Learn more here.
- Connect with others – find those who also share the value of asking questions, ensuring fairness, and want a great learning experience for their student
- Ask questions publicly – email the board, ask questions about proposed policies, or submit your comments for the public comment periods, don’t be afraid to speak up
- Volunteer for committees – many boards have parent committees where you can get involved and provide input that helps to make real change
- Document and share information – are you great at summarizing big chunks of info? Use your superpower for good and share the information with other parents who may not be able to attend meetings or are trying to understand a particular policy
Remember that being a good school board nag means that you’re modeling to your child the importance of citizenship and how their voice matters to bring about change. You’ll also make it so much easier for other parents or caregivers to step up and ask questions. You’re not being a burden, you are filling a critical role that helps to provide checks and balances. Asking why or for clarification can help the board recognize potential flaws or holes in their policies. Your advocacy will help all children, not just your own. I hope to see you at the next board meeting!
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