Random Acts of Kindness: no, I’m not talking about paying for the car behind in the coffee drive-thru. Let’s be honest: what benefit does that bring? It creates a line of cars guilt paying for the next car. Where in the end, everyone is still paying for a coffee they were already planning to pay for, and someone is judged when they end the offer streak. I’m talking about doing actual acts of kindness to those around you for the sheer reason of being kind, not for recognition or external accolades.
While the world is spinning around chaotically, sometimes a simple action can create a blissful ripple of joy. There are so many seemingly random acts of kindness you can do daily that can bring happiness to your life and others. Remembering to spread acts of kindness can have a lasting impact.
Random acts of kindness can benefit the giver, the recipient, and society. Some of the benefits are:
Improved Mental Health
Acts of kindness can boost your mood almost instantly and reduce stress. Positive interactions can release oxytocin and serotonin.
Strengthening Relationships
Doing something kind for others can strengthen the bond between the giver and recipient.
Encourages Positive Behavior
When you perform acts of kindness, you are setting an example for others to follow in your lead by example, creating a ripple effect of kindness.
Increase in Self-Worth
Helping others can boost your self-esteem and sense of purpose by seeing your positive impact on the world.
Makes the World Better
While one simple act may seem small, it may mean the world to the recipient. The collective effort of acts of kindness leads to a more compassionate and connected society.
There are so many ways you can spread random acts of kindness at home, in the community, and at work. Random Acts of Kindness Foundation has many resources to make kindness the norm. The best part is that so much kindness can be completely free. Here is a quick start list of free or low cost ideas on how to spread kindness:
For Friends and Family
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- Write a heartfelt note or card expressing appreciation
- Surprise them with their favorite snack
- Give a genuine compliment to make them feel special
- Spend dedicated time with them
- Send flowers to a friend
For Strangers
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- Hold the door or elevator open for someone
- Let someone jump in line
- Leave an encouraging sticky note in a public place
- Leave change in the vending machine
- Give a stranger a genuine compliment
At Work
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- Bring in treats for co-workers
- Praise someone’s hard work in front of others
- Leave a positive recommendation on LinkedIn
- Learn the names of everyone you see every day at work and greet them by name
- Email a former teacher or leader who made a positive difference in your life
In the Community
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- Add money to a soon expiring parking meter
- Pick up litter at a public space
- Donate clothes, food, or supplies to a shelter
- Leave an extra tip for a server or delivery driver
- Volunteer at a local non-profit
Online and Social Media
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- Leave a positive review on a local business
- Share an inspiring/good-news story
- Message a friend you have not spoken with in a while
- Leave a positive comment on someone’s blog
- Avoid negative interactions
I can promise you that you will not regret being kind. If you can choose to be anything in this world, choose to be kind.