Let’s Talk About Race


Trigger Warning: racism, maternal mortality

Martin Luther King, Jr. was a Civil Rights hero. He is a modern-day legend, remembered for his messages of love, of working toward a peaceful revolution against injustice.

Because there is a focus of remembering Martin Luther King, Jr. for his message of peace, the tensions that formed the message, from which it was born, are oft forgotten. It is important to remember that the time from which Martin Luther King, Jr. had to rise was not unlike the one we are in now. For those of us raised in the 1980s and 1990s, many of us probably received messages that we are “post-racial,” that everyone should be treated “equally,” that we the color of our skin doesn’t matter. But, it is fair to say that it just isn’t true. It’s not a post-racial society. We moved from the express segregation of Jim Crow to the over-incarceration of Black men. We moved from segregated schools, to charter and magnet public schools that are still mostly White and middle class. And, specifically pertinent to this blog, Black mothers- despite education and income- are more likely to die in childbirth than White mothers

It’s incumbent on all of us to end racism. We don’t live in a post-racial society. Race and racism are alive and well, even if we’ve learned to speak racist remarks in new codes. You know what I’m talking about. 

In his Letter from Birmingham Jail (reminder: Martin Luther King, Jr. went to jail. The next time you hear someone say something about criminals, remember who gets criminalized and for what), he said one of the strongest barriers to progress is moderation (specifically the white moderate): the desire for order over the messiness of speaking out. And boy is it messy. And uncomfortable. And necessary. Even I have been asked to stop being so publicly vocal about my own political opinion (politics and racism are inextricable). 

But I won’t stop. And now I’m asking you to do the same. 

Get uncomfortable where you are. Have the conversations. Learn about privilege, and how to disrupt it. Count on people of color to lead, but don’t make them do all the work. In the spirit of Martin Luther King, Jr., don’t settle for complacency.

Here are some groups to join and follow to start getting involved in the anti-racist work happening in Indianapolis today. 

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Nickie is currently an Urban Education Studies PhD student at IUPUI. As co-owner of Indianapolis Moms Blog, she is interested in not only supporting and encouraging fellow mothers, but supporting the small businesses of Indianapolis. She also works for a Civil Rights organization, working specifically with Civil Rights in public schools. She is Mom to Charlie (3), Ivy (2), and Emery (1), and married to her baby-raising partner, Clay. She loves to travel with her littles and husband, walk the Monon, City Market, hikes, dogs, and barbecues. You'll find her with coffee in hand, likely talking to anyone who will listen.